Mid Life Crisis: Bomb Drop and Beyond

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Mid Life Crisis: Bomb Drop and Beyond

Mid Life Crisis isn't just buying a new car! Known to those in the trenches, MLC starts with depression and way too often ends with destruction like you have never imagined, AND....most sadly it's caused by the one person you are closest to and have trusted the most to share and build your life with. NO ONE IS IMMUNE, most of us thought we would NEVER end up divorced, many of the guests you'll hear from had been happily married over 20, 30 and even 40 years! Learn what red flags to look for in YOUR relationship, learn what to do and what NOT to do if your partner appears to be in limerance or showing the signs of MLC. We will also be talking directly with people who are presently in MLC and will share what it's like to live through this most challenging time of their life. These are the stories you won't hear anywhere else, so grab your beverage, get comfortable and join us as we hear the untold stories of MLC. The stories and events discussed in this podcast are for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered legal or professional advice. Any names, locations or identifying details have been changed to protect privacy. Any similarities to actual persons, living or dead, or real events are purely coincidental. The information presented on this podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered as professional advice. Always consult with a qualified expert regarding any decisions related to your specific situation. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the host or the podcast creators.

Latest episodes

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22 December 2025

Dr. Jake Porter on Betrayal Trauma and Returning to You

In this episode, Dr. Jake Porter discusses the traumatic ripple effects of betrayal and offers a path to healing for those devastated by it. As a pioneer in couple-centered recovery, Dr. Porter explains the myriad ways betrayal can affect individuals physically, emotionally, ethically, and spiritually. He emphasizes the need for those affected to reclaim their identity and offers insights into the symptoms exhibited by individuals who have experienced such trauma. Dr. Porter also touches on how men and women might experience betrayal differently, underscoring the importance of tailored therapeutic approaches to achieve personal empowerment and healing.

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14 December 2025

The Vanisher's Journey: Unraveling the Midlife Crisis

This episode focuses particularly on vanishers, those who abruptly abandon their families, often triggered by deep-seated emotional wounds which originated in early childhood. The episode outlines stages from pre-crisis identity confusion to eventual regret and potential attempts to reconnect. The narrative highlights the critical impact on spouses and children left behind, emphasizing understanding and patience as integral to navigating these challenging dynamics, and recognizing the emotional journey of those who seemingly vanish.

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09 December 2025

The Hidden Dangers of Never Arguing in Marriage

For left behind spouses, the aftermath of a partner's midlife crisis can be emotionally devastating. This episode of the podcast explores the underlying reasons why individuals in crisis might avoid confrontation, leading to significant emotional damage. By blaming their partners and framing themselves as victims, they avoid taking responsibility for their actions. The podcast offers hope by detailing signs of genuine recovery and self-awareness in returning partners. It emphasizes the importance of authentic communication, vulnerability, and the willingness to face discomfort in rebuilding trust and relationships after a midlife bomb drop.

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06 December 2025

The Moment He Said 'Change the Locks': Intuition, Instability and Who To Call If You Feel Overwhelmed or Suicidal

Midlife crises can be destabilizing, causing emotional turmoil and unexpected challenges. The podcast episode discusses the potential risks of severe midlife crises, including suicide and violence, and underscores the need for awareness and protection, especially if children express concerns. Through personal stories, the episode advocates for listening to instincts as they often reveal truths obscured by the crisis. It also offers guidance on seeking help and ensuring safety, emphasizing that vulnerability in such trying times is not weakness. The episode seeks to connect and support those affected, highlighting the importance of storytelling for mutual understanding and healing.

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30 November 2025

The Apology You'll Never Hear: Finding Gratitude in Silence

This episode explores the emotional turmoil of experiencing an unanswered apology from a vanishing spouse, one who disappears amid a midlife crisis. Though difficult, the speaker encourages listeners to find gratitude in these moments, as the silence can highlight the emotional collapses their partners endure. It's not a lack of love or regret but an inability to face shame and accountability. Understanding this allows those left behind to reclaim their strength and self-worth, validating themselves without needing an apology. Their personal journey becomes one of growth, free from the shadows of their partner's collapse.

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29 November 2025

Rising from the Ashes: Men's Stories of Betrayal and Triumph

This episode wraps up our Gratitude week as we shed light on the emotional turmoil men face during a midlife crisis and the hidden strength they harbor after being cheated on and betrayed by their wife. Highlighting stories of men like Colonel Sanders and Sylvester Stallone, it showcases that betrayal can often be a catalyst for creating empires and legacies. With examples from ordinary individuals who found new purpose through creative outlets and health-focused lives, the message is clear: a man's life story doesn't end with betrayal. It's a chance for reinvention and growth, proving that the next chapter can indeed be the best chapter.

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