Mid Life Crisis: Bomb Drop and Beyond

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Mid Life Crisis: Bomb Drop and Beyond

Mid Life Crisis isn't just buying a new car! Known to those in the trenches, MLC starts with depression and way too often ends with destruction like you have never imagined, AND....most sadly it's caused by the one person you are closest to and have trusted the most to share and build your life with. NO ONE IS IMMUNE, most of us thought we would NEVER end up divorced, many of the guests you'll hear from had been happily married over 20, 30 and even 40 years! Learn what red flags to look for in YOUR relationship, learn what to do and what NOT to do if your partner appears to be in limerance or showing the signs of MLC. We will also be talking directly with people who are presently in MLC and will share what it's like to live through this most challenging time of their life. These are the stories you won't hear anywhere else, so grab your beverage, get comfortable and join us as we hear the untold stories of MLC. The stories and events discussed in this podcast are for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered legal or professional advice. Any names, locations or identifying details have been changed to protect privacy. Any similarities to actual persons, living or dead, or real events are purely coincidental. The information presented on this podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered as professional advice. Always consult with a qualified expert regarding any decisions related to your specific situation. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the host or the podcast creators.

Latest episodes

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03 July 2025

Neuroception: Your Body's Unseen Threat Detector

Often in MLC the person experiencing the MLC exhibits narcissistic traits, even if they never exhibited them before! Listeners often ask if their spouse has been a covert narc or narcissist all along, or is this just a temporary thing? Today's discussion covers how subtle cues, often misread by the conscious mind, can alert us to shadow personalities such as covert narcissists and sociopaths. Listeners are encouraged to trust their gut instincts and recognize these warning signs as a powerful form of self-protection.

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01 July 2025

The Discard of the AP is often worse than the Bomb Drop!

This episode dives into the psychological turmoil experienced during a midlife crisis, emphasizing how affairs, often seen as an escape, end up causing further damage. The host discusses how the initial euphoria of leaving a spouse for an affair partner quickly turns into regret, resentment and contempt for the AP, ultimately leading to the dissolution of the new relationship. Listeners learn that midlife crises are not just damaging to the individuals but also to their families and relationships. The podcast serves as a reminder that running from internal emptiness through impulsive decisions rarely provides the desired fulfillment.

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27 June 2025

Work on Yourself? How about...RISE UP!

In this episode of 'Midlife Crisis, Bomb Drop and Beyond,' host Trina Laird delves into the emotional turmoil left in the aftermath of a partner's midlife crisis. Emphasizing the power of language, the discussion shifts from the often patronizing advice to 'work on yourself' to a more empowering narrative. Listeners are encouraged to reclaim their power, heal on their own terms, and view their journey as one of rising and rebuilding. The podcast aims to validate the experience of those affected by midlife crisis, offering a supportive community and a message of hope and empowerment.

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25 June 2025

An Apology from one LBS Husband on behalf of all men to the Discarded Wives in Pain Everywhere

This short little episode today is packed full with HEART, EMPATHY AND LOVE - something most wives DO NOT GET at bomb drop, nor do husbands when their wives drop a bomb on them! Today Trina reads a letter from a husband who experienced sudden discard by his wife of 22 years, but as heart broken, emotionally and financially devastated HE is...he took the time to write in because it broke his heart to hear some of the stories by the women on this show. He gets it. He lived it too. He feels their pain, just like we all do! PAIN HAS NO GENDER! That is exactly the purpose of community, here and on the many other platforms available to us. COMMUNITY. Sort of like the Cheers song...where everyone knows your name...but with MLC it's where everyone knows your PAIN. COMMUNITY. HEART. EMPATHY. It still exists. Thank you to this husband who apologizes on behalf of all men, we truly thank you for acknowledging that this is anything but normal, anything but acceptable. We Feel Heard.

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23 June 2025

Navigating the Aftermath: A Midlife Crisis Explored, Three Listener Stories

Listener Brian shares his heart-wrenching experience of his wife’s midlife-induced infidelity, unraveling a stable family life. Married for over two decades, with three children, the unexpected affair led to a cascade of financial and emotional challenges. Brian's narrative highlights the consequential disruption to their children's education and the psychological toll on the entire family as they struggle to navigate a changed reality. By spotlighting personal accounts, this episode underscores the pervasive impact of such crises, aiming to foster community support, provide insight into psychological ramifications, and offer avenues for emotional recovery and understanding.

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18 June 2025

Surviving Cancer and Infidelity: Maggie's Story

Maggie's life turned upside down when her husband of 33 years revealed an affair, compounded by Maggie's diagnosis of stage three breast cancer. Her husband's request to open their marriage, juxtaposed with her urgent fight for survival, left Maggie grappling with betrayal, body image issues, and the unraveling of past identities. Fighting through this storm, she faced treatments alone, reflecting on forgiveness and personal growth. Despite immense challenges, including her husband’s indifference and absence during her medical battles, Maggie's resolve to persevere illustrates her powerful journey through pain towards self-discovery and inner strength.

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